Its hard to answer that. We (Clif and I) have been now in two poly-amorous relationships, and we didn’t “look” for a partner in either of them. It just happened.
Our recent breakup is still, well, recent. So that wound is still sore. Clif and I (and Bryan) are still dealing with lots of things in our own ways. The one thing that is clear is that we are trying to move forward and I for one welcome whatever the universe has in store for us when it comes to all that.
Its not easy finding someone and to actually click with that person at a deep level. And then to have that happen twice with each of us. Clif is the shy one in the relationship and I’m the social one, as many of you know. So it’s quite possible that if we ever find someone again that it will be me who does the finding. And I talk to some guys that show so much interest, that seem to share so much of our way of thinking, so I know that there might be someone out there. But it takes more than just the occasional flirting to make a real connection. It takes effort. Effort to really get to know someone, especially Clif.
So we’re not looking. But whatever will be will be. We are poly, even if we’re “single”. ^_^
ok, whats up with the tickling? :P First of all, if my man is busy tickling me then who would hold the phone for the pic? This is the 3rd time I get a request for tickling pics (I’m assuming from the same person). And although I’m sure it would be a very cute pic if anyone happens to catch that moment spontaneously in a pic, I think it would be strange for me to stage that. Not judging, seriously, but I find nothing sexual in being tickled at least REALLY tickled. :P
I’m assuming you mean us and Jesus and Alex? :P Tickling? really? :P